The Hunt for David Archuleta

February 10, 2009 · 28 comments

Photo: Kenton Chang

Photo: Kenton Chang

If you have any information on David Archuleta’s schedule/location for the remainder of his Hawaii trip, please email me at c@capsun.org.

The last few days have been a trying time for me and my fiancee, although more so on her part.  A guy you might have heard of, David Archuleta, has been in town since Thursday.  He came in second in a show on Fox called American Idol and came to Honolulu to perform the National Anthem at the Pro Bowl this past Sunday.  I should point out that the fiancee is a die-hard fan of David’s, so she wanted to get in on the fan action here.

  • At first, she was going to go to the Pro Bowl itself to watch him.  I pointed out that it wasn’t worth it:  the cheapest seats were $45, plus the $12 Ticketmaster fee, so it’s more like $60 per person.  And she was going to go with her two cousins, so that’s $180!  I don’t think she actually cared or agreed with me, and was going to go, with or without my approval.
  • Then she found out on Friday that the NFL Ohana Day at Aloha Stadium was *FREE* and open to the public.  The winds were changing, and so did her plans.  At this point, I’m happy because she was going to save money, so I consented – not that she cared.
  • Now it’s Saturday, and although she did go and get to see David perform and wave to fans, they weren’t actually able to go up and talk to him.  One of his handlers grabbed the leis she bought and gave them to him.  She gave him that orange lei that he wore for his Saturday performance, the one posted all over the internet by his fans. He acknowledged with a smile and nod to my fiancee.  That wasn’t enough, so she and her entourage walked around Aloha Stadium looking for David, to no avail.
  • A little sad when she came home, she started scouring the internet with the determination and results that normally *I* would have.  That’s when the grief started.  She found a YouTube video of another fan who actually got to meet and greet with David, not as part of the contest winners, but just walking around the entrance.  The fiancee was happy for that woman, but outraged that she didn’t go to the entrance to do the same.
  • So now it’s Sunday and we’re at a family birthday party.  The fiancee decides she is going to the Pro Bowl to try for a second time to catch David Archuleta.  She conspired with some of her friends and left the party a little early to get to the stadium in time.  Again, her plans were foiled.  When they arrived, they found out David had left not 10 minutes before they arrived.  More grief.
  • Last night, she tried to find out where David might be today.  She actually has plans to go to the airport to wave him good-bye.  She took the day off to do so. I wanted to tell her she’s crazy, but erred on the side of caution and self-preservation.

So, I do wish her luck today, but I’m not sure she’s going to get her chance to finally see David in person.  I’ve told her throughout the experience that she’s setting herself up for failure and disappointment by trying so hard and getting no reward.

I’ve also been a bit of a jerk with snide remarks and a negative, unsupportive attitude about all this, so today’s post is my form of an apology to her. And not an attempt to generate more search traffic by blogging about David Archuleta, although it did happen in Hawaii, so that does fall into the three categories I blog about.

I should have been more supportive and understanding.  After all, I have a bit of an obsession and addiction with my blogging (both of them!).  So, could you help me make amends?  If you have any information on David’s schedule/location for the remainder of his Hawaii trip, please email me at c@capsun.org. Otherwise, I think she’ll be flying to one of his upcoming concerts.  Had I known that, I would have encouraged her to go to the Pro Bowl.

Mahalo!

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There have been only a handful of really great singers in my lifetime. Many people make music but when David sings suddenly I hear the words and message. He is young but he has an incredible gift and I am excited about following his journey. I am addicted to his sound and have to listen to him each and everyday. I want him to do a cover for every song out there. It is hard to explain but once his voice has grabbed you-you are a willing captive. I haven't seen him perform on stage yet but I promise myself I will as soon as I can.

Hi Capsun-
I dont normally read your blog. Ok, Ive NEVER read your blog, and you are a close friend. But I had to check out what you posted about David Archuleta. I was part of the entourage trying desperately to meet him, perhaps snag an autograph and photo at the Pro Bowl Ohana Day! It is still very sad that we had so much bad luck! Please continue to blog about him.

Julie,
You are the one who thinks this whole fanatic fan thing resembles the second coming phenomenon. He is not God or even close to that. His fans just love him so much because of who he is as an artist and person. Why does age matter when you become a fan? Are you a fan of someone who is always older than you? His haters try to shake him off right, left, upside down and inside out to get dirt out of him, but fail. BTW, David is the last person who thinks himself of even a celebrity. He just wants to sing and deliver the positive impact of music that has done to himself.
Capsun,
I think you are such a nice guy trying to help her. Think about this way. Do you have something you absolutely love to do? Does she understand your passion for that ? If you truly love her, you should at least try to understand her passion too. I've never been a fan of anyone, but I fell for David, and my hubby deals with my new hobby pretty well. He even tried to go to an upcoming concert for me, but tickets were sold out.

Yes he is a teen idol but he is also more than that! I'm a fan but I don't think he is the 2nd coming. He is charismatic with a beautiful soul and one of the most amazing singers of this generation. I hope some of you non-fans will take some time to google his performances and I'm sure you will enjoy what we fans do!

I think the world just needs more ppl like David to inspire goodness!

my husband tease's me about david archuleta so i know how she feels the only concert that will be close to me is 2hr's away and the same day i will be having surgery so all i can hope for is alot of youtube

Good God. The "testimonials" in this thread from other members of the Archuleta cult should be plenty of reason for this guy to intervene with his girlfriend. Stuff like "Someday the entire world will know who he is, and others won’t think we’re so crazy" is just bizarre. You DO know this is just a teen idol kid and NOT the second coming, right? Wow. I wonder if this is the weird mentality that made such a mess of Michael Jackson's head?

You're a great guy, Kenton, to have seen the error of your ways! Sweet of you to try to help your fiancee. I think David spoke at a church fireside on Sunday, not that it matters now.

A lot of guys can relate to your David predicament. My son thought I had totally lost my marbles and fought against my fixation. He has given up now, has finally come to terms with it. I am a rabid fan of David's and will ALWAYS be one. I've travelled 7,200+ miles thus far to see him sing three times. And, I've got a couple of concerts and an additional 1,200 miles coming up. Lots of people have me beat for mileage, though. One girl has flown in to see him three times from SINGAPORE, plus driving when she got here. haha

I have never, EVER been a fan of anyone in my entire life. I always thought it was immature, nonsensical. But, I am over the moon for this young singer. David is more than an entertainer. He inspires people. When you get to know him, he changes in your eyes from a singer to a DEAR friend who sings. You cannot help but love him. And thousands of us do.

I actually stopped listening to music for a good 20 years. No lie. I listened to talk radio, went to the symphony several times a year, that was it...until I heard David sing. Then I said, "If there's beauty in the world like THAT and I'm not listening, I'm a FOOL!" I have been listening to music ever since, mainly David but lots of others he's recommended, as well. Following him and his career has brought me great JOY. You'll be happiest with your lady if you open your heart and mind to David, and hopefully become a fellow fan.

Best wishes!

I hope someone can introduce you to his music..David is am amazing talent, he is just so down to earth, my family and I met him on the American Idol tour last summer, there is just something very special about David, just one of a kind..my children love him, my husband is amazed by him and I will support him in his career as long as he sings..it's from the heart and you just have to hear him to understand it..

Good luck:)

You know Cap...welcome to married life a little early....:)

Blogger refuses to allow me to comment on your photo blog.

Wow, some of you just don't get it. I feel sorry for anyone who hasn't experienced the joy this young man brings to the people who get him. I am 53 years old and will gladly be following him wherever his career takes me. There are a lot of other level-headed older women like me whose lives have been turned upside down by this phenomenal guy. Someday the entire world will know who he is, and others won't think we're so crazy. Would you say that the people who followed Elvis were crazy or "missing something"? If so then I really do pity you because you haven't known what it is to live.

Many husbands, fiancees, and boyfriends can relate to what you've just written (and well!) Capsun. Those of us who have met David Archuleta know it is not possible to be close enough, often enough. He's a very expensive hobby and I think you were getting off cheaply that your girl hasn't decided to take off to the mainland to hit 4 or 5 of his concert venues. He's an addiction, that's what he is.

It doesn't look like you had any luck. Sorry. I am no help whatsoever because I rarely ever turn on my TV, and so I had no idea half the female population had gone gaga over some guy who looks to be 12. I guess I need to do some net surfin' and hear him sing. It must be magical.

since i doubt she'll get to meet him in hawaii, maybe you could go with her to one of his concerts. it could be a good bonding experience if you both went together instead of you making fun of her and seeming like you don't understand. you know? go with her, make good comments during the concert and go with her as she runs around trying to meet david.

Had I known so many people would have gotten worked up about my comment about him...I really would have said what I thought about the little pip squeak!

If your fiancee is 15 then her behavior makes total sense. For an adult to be traipsing all over an island to get the attention of an 18 year old boy there must be something missing in her life. It's just a tad bit weird. Be a fan, that's fine, but this need she has to meet him screams "inappropriate fixation." We aren't entitled to meet celebrities but her stalking is bizarre.

You would get along great with MY boyfriend. He doesn't know what happened to his usually levelheaded girlfriend this past year...since I laid eyes on this David Archuleta. Yeah it's crazy, but this kid is worth being called insane!!!

Actually Damon, the fact that David is young has nothing to do with his remarkable talent. It is one of the common mistakes people make about David - dismissing him because of his youth. Many adult females and males appreciate his tremendous talent and will gladly follow him and his career wherever it takes them.

Damon, he's not pimply. His skin is almost flawless. he is one one of the best looking 18 yr old in this planet and definitely one of the best if not the best singer.

Capsun, I understand your fiancee's obsession. All the best in your hunt. I cannot help much, but I think you are a very nice person and she is so lucky to have you. Best of luck.

Wish I could help. And ya, my husband can relate too! lol

His skin is very clear - one of his many perfections. Ahem. He was at PCC in Laie on Monday. No clue today, Tuesday.

I think he leaves Hawaii today sadly. :(

Maybe you need to talk to her about reigning in her obsession a bit. Her whole pursuit of him comes across as kind of pathetic for an adult female. There's nothing normal about an adult grieving and being upset over her inability to meet a teenager.

Don't know where he is, but my husband can relate. LOL!

LOL -
Nothing better then being second hand to a pimply kid straight out of high school!

If you ever feel like apologizing to me, a simple "sorry" will do!

Capsun: I wish her well. I do hope that she gets to see him more up front and personal. Will keep my eyes and ears peeled for her.

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