Repost on Teaching Tolerance
Sep 11th, 2009 by Capsun
On this, the 8th anniversary of the September 11 attacks, I thought about what I could say. After thinking long and hard, I concluded that reiterating my post on Teaching Tolerance in an Increasingly Intolerant World would be most appropriate. Here it is, in its entirety:
Today is National Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day, 2008 and as we remember and honor those who have perished in wars, I only wonder what leads to so many of our conflicts in life, both big and small – and that is intolerance.
CAPSUN AND HIS FRIENDS
Here’s a quick snapshot of me; I’m a:
- Native Hawaiian
- registered member of the Democratic Party (have been since I was 18)
- social liberal and fiscal moderate
- voter who votes in every election
- not particularly religious person
Despite these traits, some of my closest friends are the ones I radically disagree with on ideology and religion – some are even religious conservatives. While many people use these disagreements to make personal attacks, being such close friends, we always keep it about the issues.
DIFFERENCES VS. DIVERSITY
In the wake of the Mumbai (Bombay) attacks, we need to move beyond such petty ways of viewing our differences. UH Manoa has an office called “SEED” – Student Equity, Excellence, and Diversity. I take this to mean that Diversity equals Excellence, which leads to Equity.
So what some call our differences, I call our diversity. We have to embrace our diversity as one of our greatest strengths. After all, that was one of the overarching themes when the Founding Fathers drafted the Constitution of the United States of America. And instead of making personal attacks, or starting wars, they sought to compromise (Remember the Connecticut Compromise from U.S. History?).
MOVING ON AND MOVING FORWARD
I think my fellow blogger, Auntie Pupule (a staunch Ann Kobayashi supporter) embraced this value best in her Tweet on Election Day:
I love you Hawaii! I love you America! I love you Twitter Ohana!
I love you too Mufi
She sets a good example for us to move on and work together after an election, much like President-Elect Barack Obama and Sen. John McCain have shown us.
One way to teach others tolerance is to show them to focus on what we agree on, not what we disagree on. By finding some common ground with an “enemy” we can find more evidence of the ties that bind us as humans and won’t have to villainize them. Most people aren’t nearly as bad as our rhetoric makes them out to be (although there are some very prominent exceptions throughout history).
I realize the irony of me writing this post despite my intolerance toward Mesa/go! Airlines, but that’s a whole different story – and a challenge I guess I need to work on as a flawed human being. I still hope you will consider what I’ve said.
Mahalo!
Again, I do hope that by focusing on what we agree on, we can not only be tolerant, but move society forward as a whole.
Mahalo!
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We need to be diverse to be tolerant. But there are somethings that I cannot be tolerant of. go! Airlines for one, Osama Bin Laden for another. Try as I might, I can’t. We can NEVER forget!
I thinks some people are missing your point. I don’t mean to imply that the United States deserved to be attacked. There is no justification for such a heinous act.
I believe that had the United States really been the benevolent nation it purports to be, the attack never would have happened. Tolerance is the only way we are all going to survive on this ever shrinking world.